A crisis — medical emergency, fall, psychological breakdown — is exactly when communication under pressure matters most. The caregiver who has practiced crisis communication is the one who remains effective when it counts.
What Happens to Communication in a Crisis
- Working memory is reduced — you may forget what you were going to do next
- Communication may become fragmented — thoughts come in pieces
- Time perception distorts — seconds can feel like minutes
The Crisis Communication Sequence
Assess and secure safety
Is the client safe? Are you safe? Call 911 if needed — this comes before calling anyone else.
Stay with the client
Do not leave a client in crisis alone unless the environment is unsafe. Your presence is stabilizing — a calm caregiver communicates to the client's nervous system that the situation is being managed.
Communicate calmly and simply
Simple, clear sentences — not complex explanations. "You are safe. I am here. Help is coming." The client in distress needs anchoring, not information.
Call for help using SBAR
When calling for help — 911 or supervisor — use SBAR. Situation first: what is happening right now. The dispatcher needs the most important thing first.
Document as soon as stable
After the immediate crisis is managed, document: what happened, what you observed, what you did, who was notified. Document while your memory is freshest.
When a Client Makes a Suicidal Statement
- Stay calm and stay present — do not panic or leave the client
- Ask directly: "Are you thinking about hurting yourself?" — asking does not increase risk; avoiding does
- Listen without judgment if the client wants to talk
- Do not promise secrecy: "I care about you and I need to make sure you're safe — I need to tell my supervisor"
- Call your supervisor immediately
- Do not leave the client alone until you have reached your supervisor and received direction
When a Client or Family Is in Psychological Crisis
- Regulate your own state first: You cannot help someone else regulate if you are dysregulated. Take one breath before speaking.
- Use a low, calm voice: Tone of voice is contagious — a calmer voice pulls the other person's nervous system toward calm.
- Short sentences, eye contact, physical presence: "I'm here. I'm not going anywhere. Tell me what is happening."
- Avoid argument or correction: A person in crisis cannot process complex counter-arguments. Agree, acknowledge, redirect.
After a Crisis
- Brief with your supervisor — describe what happened and how you responded
- Identify what worked and what was difficult
- Access agency support resources if needed
- Do not immediately proceed to the next client in a dysregulated state